A rather interesting discussion about aging in the sex tourist world came up the other night when I spoke with them. One fellow from Australia spoke of a older man in scene who died in Bangkok. This man set up house not with a young hottie (his description) but with am older more responsible Thai woman. He then paid her a salary to take care of him and set up an incentive program. Supposedly he did up deal with a lawyer where the longer he stayed alive the more money the woman taking care of him would eventually inherit.
Fro many a sexpat (long term sex tourists) perspective, this is a best case scenario. They often have no wife, no children, no real friends who love and respect them. They rarely have put in the time and commitment into building those relationships. Basically after living a long life no on gives a shit whether they live or die. Just as they have bought sex for their entire lives now they must use their money to continue to buy people to care about them. They must buy their caregiver(s) (loved ones)and rig in added dollar promises to get the person to care whether they live or die.
A loathsome, selfish and terrible way to live. Their entire lives centre around using their money to buy the poor for their own selfish sexual gratification and survival. In a way the end life they face is a kind of grand cosmic karma pay back.
One of the men I known here for almost 2 decades, always called the world he lives in a "Paradise" a "Heaven" is now seeing the other side. He is old and lonely and entertains some suicidal thoughts. Many nights he sits in his corner of the hotel he lives in by himself untouched and unloved. Many of the girls refuse to go with him for sex even if he pays them "Big Money". His health has gone downhill, stomach food eating issues (HIV?). He has gone from sex with 1-4 girls a day to 2-3 a week.He told me why go on living if he cannot enjoy life any longer?
Fro many a sexpat (long term sex tourists) perspective, this is a best case scenario. They often have no wife, no children, no real friends who love and respect them. They rarely have put in the time and commitment into building those relationships. Basically after living a long life no on gives a shit whether they live or die. Just as they have bought sex for their entire lives now they must use their money to continue to buy people to care about them. They must buy their caregiver(s) (loved ones)and rig in added dollar promises to get the person to care whether they live or die.
A loathsome, selfish and terrible way to live. Their entire lives centre around using their money to buy the poor for their own selfish sexual gratification and survival. In a way the end life they face is a kind of grand cosmic karma pay back.
One of the men I known here for almost 2 decades, always called the world he lives in a "Paradise" a "Heaven" is now seeing the other side. He is old and lonely and entertains some suicidal thoughts. Many nights he sits in his corner of the hotel he lives in by himself untouched and unloved. Many of the girls refuse to go with him for sex even if he pays them "Big Money". His health has gone downhill, stomach food eating issues (HIV?). He has gone from sex with 1-4 girls a day to 2-3 a week.He told me why go on living if he cannot enjoy life any longer?
